i'm creating an intricate site. the options for database are: mysql, sqllite, or xml
it will communicate with php. i need to know, 1) which will be the fastest and lightest on bandwidth/server load overall (when the site gets massive), 2) which is most similar to mysql queries (sqllite or xml), 3) can sqllite and xml perform: select, update, delete, insert similar to the queries by mysql (i know there's something for xml called "xml_query2xml" in pear, but does this allow you to do insert, delete, and update like you would in mysql?)
also, if you can provide any xml frameworks that do the following for databases, that'd help toO!!
thanks, alex